{"id":118550,"date":"2023-03-18T09:00:52","date_gmt":"2023-03-18T09:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stories.qvcuk.com\/?p=118550"},"modified":"2023-03-14T15:17:28","modified_gmt":"2023-03-14T15:17:28","slug":"pyschosexual-therapist-karin-blak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stories.qvcuk.com\/menopause-your-way\/jessica-m\/pyschosexual-therapist-karin-blak\/","title":{"rendered":"A chat with pyschosexual therapist Karin Blak"},"content":{"rendered":"

As a psychosexual and relationship therapist I work with many couples on ways to improve their communication. One general piece of advice is to talk when you are both calm. There are good reasons for this, not least because trying to get a good understanding of one another is virtually impossible when the heat is on. When you are calm, you see life through more realistic lenses, and are better able to make rational decisions and reach a positive outcome.<\/p>\n

When working with relationships affected by menopause, irritability, brain fog, and anxiety are looked at as symptoms of that menopause, rather than diving into their deeper meaning. This is especially the case if the symptoms have recently become stronger and more frequent.<\/p>\n

Under these circumstances, while the standard communication advice still counts, there are some additional pieces of the communication puzzle that will make it easier to talk together about menopause:<\/p>\n