Dear Lynn, I will keep all my memories safe and ever present, and hold onto the short time we have left. Mum is to be moved to a nursing home on Monday, and so we hope she will be more peaceful there. I do hope all is well with your family, and thank you for taking the time to write to me. Love Ali xx

Pam I’m so sorry to know that you lost both your parents while you were so young, but I love your brave ethos and slant on life. And you are of course right. This isn’t a rehearsal, and we only get one shot at it, and that’s why I’m determined to live each day to the full, and get to see mum as often as I can while she is still with you. Thank you for your strong words of support, they mean so much, love Ali xx

Dear Karen, so glad that you were able to treat yourself to some of the Butler and Wilson anniversary jewellery. The dancing couple is one of my favourites although clearly I liked the dragonfly too! I am also very happy to know that you’ve had my pendant engraved… and so glad that you liked the design. I hope you’re doing okay? Take care, love Ali xx

Dear Judith, I know that over the years you too have had your share of sadness and difficult times, so I really appreciate you writing to me with your words of comfort. I’m just taking each day as it comes, and praying each time I leave mum that it won’t be the last time I see her. I hope that all is well with you now, love Ali xx

Bless you Kim, that’s really good of you. Love Ali xx

Dear Anne, thank you so very much. It’s very kind of you to write to me, love Ali xx

Thank you Jenny for your sweet and supportive words – I really appreciate you taking the time out to write to me. The party was such fun, and a total contrast to the news I received the following day, but like all of life, there are the good and the bad days. I hope that all is well with you, love Ali xx

Dear Joy, I am so sorry to hear that you had to face such a diagnosis in March, but am very relieved that you are now doing well. I’m also glad to know that you, like I, have the love and support of family and friends. Where would we be without them? Thank you for your support too. It’s not an easy time, and very draining, but staying positive and never giving up hope is so important. Love to you too, Ali xx

Hello Karen, I do believe that is the same hospital. The QA in Cosham. It’s a very large hospital, but the care has been excellent. It’s not easy caring for the elderly and those with dementia, but all the staff are incredibly kind. I’m so glad your dear dad was under their care too. Love Ali xx